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Today I’m going to share with you three things to talk about with a guy to instantly spark interest.
The real way to get someone to like you is to get them to talk about things that they are interested in. This will put less stress on you because you don’t have to do all the talking. You are not the one trying to impress him.
You’re just asking him questions about himself and get him to make you impressed by the things he’s saying, so the first thing to ask them is what does he like to do for fun when he’s not working? I remember once when I was talking to a woman, I was talking about my job. She kind of interrupted me.
She said no no, no, let’s not talk about that. Let’s talk about what you do for fun. When you’re not working, and it immediately switches the conversation from something that was going and kind of a boring lame not interesting conversation to something that turned interesting, and I was able to talk about my Harley back in the day when I used to ride Harley-Davidsons, not anymore.
No one wants to talk about work. They want to talk about the fun things in life. What are those exciting things that you love to do? That’s where the passion comes from. That’s where you’re going to get people just to be excited and get their eyes to Glow.
Number two is finding just common interests.
Finding things that you have in common is an incredible way to bond in many ways. a conversation when you first meet someone is just all about searching for things that you may or may not have in common things that will Bond you where you say: “wow.” We both like to do this or we are very similar in this way.
It could be religion, perhaps or even dare. I say politics you might have something in common on or it could be just something you have always wanted to do with your life. Maybe it’s traveling but finding something that you too can connect on is going to help build the relationship and
Number three: talk about his dreams.
Does he want to go in life if he had a million dollars today? What would he do with his life for the next five years? What does he want to do if he could quit his job and do anything in the world? I mean start talking about these types of things, and you’re going to send the change yourself from being just that same old girl that he needs a different bar or meet Seven online dating event or whatever.
And now suddenly you’ve differentiated yourself. And the cool thing about these types of questions is again, you are going to weed out the Duds from the guys that you actually want to start spending more time in investing your energy into and if all else fails just talked about sports beer and food because come on, he’s still a guy.
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