How to Meet Men: 7 Tips to Meeting Men (In Real Life)


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When you’re in college, it’s easy to meet people. In class. At parties. Everywhere.

But something happens as you get older. It gets harder and harder to meet men. Either they’re already paired up or you simply don’t find the opportunity to meet them.

You don’t want to date someone from work. You’ve been set up by friends before and…well, that was awkward. So how the heck are you supposed to figure out how to meet men in this day and age??

Please believe me: it is absolutely possible to meet men…you just have to know where and how to do it.

1:19 How to Meet Men Tip 1. Wear a Comfortable But Attractive Outfit

You want to wear something that you feel good in and that complements your body. Maybe it’s red, the color that warms up your skin tone. Maybe it’s a v-neck shirt that accentuates your cleavage. If it’s something you’ve gotten compliments wearing and it’s comfortable, it’s good to go.

Now, I’m not saying every time you leave the house you need to dress to meet a man. But I am saying you should take pride in your appearance.

2:33 How to Meet Men Tip 2. Spray Your Best Perfume

Another tip for how to meet men is to pay attention to how you smell. So, just like with the clothing, pick a scent that you like.

2:39 How to Meet Men Tip 3. Make Yourself Look Unoccupied

I know that eating a meal alone or sitting by yourself in a coffee shop can be a bit intimidating, and the first thing you do is try to look busy. That’s actually the worst thing you can do if you’re trying to learn how to meet men.

Your phone is a crutch when it comes to blocking you from meeting men. If you’re constantly on it, scrolling through dating profiles or whatever, you’re not looking up. And then you might miss the totally hot guy checking you out!

3:37 How to Meet Men Tip 4. Use Body Language To Attract The Guy You Want to Talk To You

Smile and make eye contact with him for several seconds.

4:19 How to Meet Men Tip 5. Make Eye Contact

Again, give it more effort than just a casual glance you’d give just anyone. Let your eyes linger. Make sure that smile you’ve perfected works its way up to your eyes. Smiling with your eyes — or smizing, as this article calls it — is authentic and shows that you’re not just smiling to be polite.

4:47 How to Meet Men Tip 6. Be Ready To Engage in a Fun Conversation

Always be open to a conversation with a stranger, whether you find him attractive or not. It’s good practice. In addition to responding in a friendly manner, make sure your face and body language also communicate your openness. Again, smile! Turn your body toward the man, and lean toward him.

5:40 How to Meet Men Tip 7. If He Doesn’t Come to You, Don’t Be Scared To Take The Initiative

Like I said: some guys won’t approach you. You shouldn’t take offense to that. This man may be shy or insecure. He may fear you rejecting him. But realize: he’s out because he wants to meet a woman…so be that woman!

And take it from me: men like it when women approach.

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