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7 flirty texts & flirty questions for him | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo
It’s no secret that one of the best tools you can use to get a man to open his heart and commit to you is through the effective use of QUESTIONS.
Questions are a hot knife through the butter of his defenses… and they’re incredibly simple to use.
All you need is the right question to get him to start talking.
And when a man starts talking, he’s an open book to you. It’s like a love spell you can use anytime to awaken his attraction for you.
So today I’m going to give you some of those questions to use on him. (BTW: These phrases are something I give you a ton more of in my Passion Phrases: Obsess His Mind, Capture His Heart program.)
AND the best part is that all of them are great questions you can text him!
But first… we’re going to talk about 5 Questions you should NOT ask a guy. Yeah, you might have seen these somewhere, and they told you to use them, but they’re not a good idea.
BAD Question/Text 1: “Do you have a girlfriend?”
Why ask this? This is an obvious question that could make you feel pretty dumb in about 10 seconds.
You never have to worry about being this direct with a man, because we’re super easy to get information out of. Instead, just ask him one of the questions I give you below …
BAD Question/Text 2: “Have you ever…?”
I’m actually talking about ONE kind of “have you ever” question here – and it’s about S-E-X. If this is your first time talking to him, or your first date, there’s no need for sex talk yet. Instead, use the one I’ll show you in a minute…
BAD Question/Text 3: “Are you busy on…?”
This is another one of those “set you up for failure” questions I see suggested by articles everywhere.
Don’t get suckered on this one.
It’s a question that seems like a safe way to ask a guy out, but you don’t need to go this far. In fact, if you have to be this obvious with him, he’s an idiot. Or he’s just not interested.
Either way, he’s not for you.
BAD Question/Text 4: “What do you think about me?”
Fishing for feedback from a guy you barely know is the most insecure, needy, and unnecessary thing you can do. I wouldn’t even suggest that my teenage daughter do this. It’s the worst advice, EVER.
(And in case you’re wondering, I found this exact question suggested as a “good” flirt question. Oy vey!)
BAD Question/Text 5: “How can you be so cute/gorgeous/funny/whatever?”
If you’re complimenting him like this, you clearly need to read the rest of this article. Paying a man compliments like this so quickly is going to make you unattractive and disinteresting to most men.
(This kind exact bit of advice was also promoted in another article as “smart,” and is probably the worst thing you can do to start a relationship off right.)
Just keep in mind that when a woman opens her mouth, it should never – and I mean NEVER sound like a cheesy pickup line.
Okay, enough about the DON’Ts – let’s get into the DOs:
Flirty Question #1: “What gym do you go to?”
This one is an obvious flattery question that is a bit LESS obvious than “Have you been working out?”
Use this one, then pretend some fake shock when he tells you he “works out at home” or “hasn’t been going lately.”
But please don’t ask the question if he’s got a beer belly and is obviously UN-athletic. Only ask if you find his physique attractive. Otherwise, it’s shallow manipulation.
Flirty Question #2: “What’s your favorite funny?”
This one’s good, because he might not get it at first. Yes that’s a good thing, because making a guy wonder will always trigger him to think about you more.
So you can text him this question or ask him in person, and when he asks: “What do you mean?”
“Where do you go to get a good laugh in the middle of the day?”
What you want to discover is where he’s finding his humor and levity. It’s also a great way to find out what kind of sense of humor he has, and whether or not yours is compatible.
Plus, there’s nothing more bonding than whipping out your phone and sharing a funny video (and a laugh) with each other.
Flirty Question #3: “What’s your…”
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